Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides This video by Dr. Joe, www.joekort.com, is about Gay Men and Sex: Tops, Bottoms and Sides. Not every gay man wants to have anal sex. Many consider anal sex as sex and everything else as foreplay. Yet for gay men who [...]
The Heterosexual Trance If you are heterosexual and cisgender you have won the lottery in this lifetime. Our world is designed perfectly for you. You get to hold hands, kiss and say I love you openly and outwardly to the other gender without fear of repercussion, violence, looks [...]
Mixed Orientation Marriage (MOM) & Relationships (MORE): 1 straight spouse, 1 LGBT & Sexually Fluid partner We are beginning a series of videos and in-person discussion groups in Royal Oak, MI titled, "Smart Sex-Smart Love" where we will be addressing relationship issues and sexual issues. Learn more here. The dates and [...]
Sex Counseling / The Top 3 Reasons: Why Men, Women & Couples Need Help You have 3 brains: Your frontal lobe which can reason, the limbic system which experiences fear and pleasure and your brain stem which scans for danger and safety. When dating, if you don't understand [...]
Every couple should be having 2 conversations One about the relationship and another about the sexual part of their relationship.
Loving a partner with Asperger’s can be both challenging and rewarding On my first date with Mike — we’ve been partners now for 24 years – he asked me “Are we on a date?” And the second date, he asked “Are we still dating? I thought it was so sweet and [...]
IMAGO Therapy & the first two Stages of Love: Romantic Love & Power Struggle This video talks about my workshops on IMAGO Relationship Therapy. I describe the first two stages of love and what attracts us to a partner and what causes conflict. The next video will be [...]
The final stage of love: Real Love Here I talk about how couples make it to real love, love that is based on reality. I talk about the turtle and the hailstorm as well as how we are attractive to familiar love. It is no accident we are [...]
Are You a High T or a Low T? Jerry and Linda came to me to help them with their marital problems. He felt that she had tricked him into marrying her by “pretending” to have a high sex drive, and believed that Linda was now withholding sex in an [...]
What if we thought of monogamy as a spectrum? "The study revealed two important findings. First, millennials like myself are less interested in monogamy than our elders are. Second, millennials don’t view monogamy as all or nothing. We realize that, like sexuality and gender, relationships can exist on a spectrum. And [...]